請不要用假裝討論來包裝你的歧視 - 閒聊
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原文恕刪
同樣的用詞,放在不同的社會情境中,就是會有不同的意思。
就好比你在一個人面前說智障,跟你在醫學研究的場合說智障,兩者給人帶來的
內涵跟感受就是不一樣,這跟你本身有沒有罵人的意思無關,而是處在發言當下的
情境,使的你的話語出現了罵人的涵義,至於你本身究竟有沒有在罵人呢?你當然也
可以不承認,辯白自己的用詞是屬於中立的用法,但是這都無法抹滅你在會使人聯想
到罵人涵義的情境下使用該詞語,並確實使人受到傷害的事實。
A大在原文說:「同性戀不正常。」這在同性戀處於弱勢、長期被汙名化的社會情境(不
要跟我說沒有,這句話等哪天同性婚姻通過、社會大眾想到同志不會在聯想到愛滋、
濫交,同志跟爸媽出櫃不會再被抓去看醫生時你再跟我說沒有)下,就是會給被指稱
的當事人,與旁觀的其他版友有低貶的意涵,並造成當事人的傷害。不論你本身是否
有傷害的意圖,至少該為所造成的傷害道歉吧?(不過A大確實已道過歉而受害者也已接
受)(至於說會被傷害是因為心靈太脆弱.....哈,好一個罪責受害者的論調)
然後別再提教育部辭典了,辭典裡只會告訴你智障是泛指心智能力低於常人、幹的意
思是築牆時支撐在牆兩端的木材,而不會告訴你這些都能拿來罵人。放下辭典,多看
點電視吧。
如果你硬要說認為「同性戀不正常」是你個人基於某些事實而產生的合理論述,那麼
就請你好好的寫一篇文,闡述其中的理由,並提出足以使人信服的證據,供大家討論
。無端的丟下一句不正常,然後也不提出證據證明所言,講白了只是謾罵的一種罷了,
而很抱歉,謾罵並不受言論自由的保護。
寫到這裡,我想起了NTU版甲甲論戰裡曾出現的比喻,在此借來一用:在電車裡,一個男
人的手碰到一個女人的胸部,旁人叫他手拿開他還不拿開,那個女人大罵他性騷擾,結
果男人很生氣地說:我才沒有性騷擾!我沒有性騷擾的意思!!我只是手放在你的胸部上,
難道這就代表我性騷擾嗎?!難道我沒有把手放在我想放的位置上的自由嗎?!!!
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同樣的用詞,放在不同的社會情境中,就是會有不同的意思。
就好比你在一個人面前說智障,跟你在醫學研究的場合說智障,兩者給人帶來的
內涵跟感受就是不一樣,這跟你本身有沒有罵人的意思無關,而是處在發言當下的
情境,使的你的話語出現了罵人的涵義,至於你本身究竟有沒有在罵人呢?你當然也
可以不承認,辯白自己的用詞是屬於中立的用法,但是這都無法抹滅你在會使人聯想
到罵人涵義的情境下使用該詞語,並確實使人受到傷害的事實。
A大在原文說:「同性戀不正常。」這在同性戀處於弱勢、長期被汙名化的社會情境(不
要跟我說沒有,這句話等哪天同性婚姻通過、社會大眾想到同志不會在聯想到愛滋、
濫交,同志跟爸媽出櫃不會再被抓去看醫生時你再跟我說沒有)下,就是會給被指稱
的當事人,與旁觀的其他版友有低貶的意涵,並造成當事人的傷害。不論你本身是否
有傷害的意圖,至少該為所造成的傷害道歉吧?(不過A大確實已道過歉而受害者也已接
受)(至於說會被傷害是因為心靈太脆弱.....哈,好一個罪責受害者的論調)
然後別再提教育部辭典了,辭典裡只會告訴你智障是泛指心智能力低於常人、幹的意
思是築牆時支撐在牆兩端的木材,而不會告訴你這些都能拿來罵人。放下辭典,多看
點電視吧。
如果你硬要說認為「同性戀不正常」是你個人基於某些事實而產生的合理論述,那麼
就請你好好的寫一篇文,闡述其中的理由,並提出足以使人信服的證據,供大家討論
。無端的丟下一句不正常,然後也不提出證據證明所言,講白了只是謾罵的一種罷了,
而很抱歉,謾罵並不受言論自由的保護。
寫到這裡,我想起了NTU版甲甲論戰裡曾出現的比喻,在此借來一用:在電車裡,一個男
人的手碰到一個女人的胸部,旁人叫他手拿開他還不拿開,那個女人大罵他性騷擾,結
果男人很生氣地說:我才沒有性騷擾!我沒有性騷擾的意思!!我只是手放在你的胸部上,
難道這就代表我性騷擾嗎?!難道我沒有把手放在我想放的位置上的自由嗎?!!!
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