林奕含出書的目的 - 閒聊
By Olivia
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嗯,她的訪談有說過
她寫這本書不是為了救贖自己,也不是要什麼勸世
是要讓讀者感受到痛苦
非常誠實的一句話,也其實是最有用的期待吧
我們常說同理心同理心
但老實說沒有相同遭遇的人,只能想像,根本不可能真正同理他人的
我也還沒看過她的書(想訂購但目前缺貨)
但看看過書的人描述,看了會很痛苦、看不下去
如果她的文筆真的細膩到讓讀者可以感受幾分她的痛,那也許是好事吧
也許父母會更留心對兒女的性教育、
也許男性能稍微想像在這社會女性被性侵,或誘騙感情身體所造成的陰影吧
很多鄉民在那討論當時合不合意及法律問題其實很無聊
事實就是那名補教老師的行為確實造成了至少一個少女從此憂鬱痛苦終身甚至自殺了
而這樣類似的案件也不是第一樁
如果讀者真的能讀到她的痛
進而反思一些我們這社會對性、對性教育、對心理健康、對精神疾病的態度
那也許才是大眾從這悲劇中能得到的一些啟示與進步吧
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她寫這本書不是為了救贖自己,也不是要什麼勸世
是要讓讀者感受到痛苦
非常誠實的一句話,也其實是最有用的期待吧
我們常說同理心同理心
但老實說沒有相同遭遇的人,只能想像,根本不可能真正同理他人的
我也還沒看過她的書(想訂購但目前缺貨)
但看看過書的人描述,看了會很痛苦、看不下去
如果她的文筆真的細膩到讓讀者可以感受幾分她的痛,那也許是好事吧
也許父母會更留心對兒女的性教育、
也許男性能稍微想像在這社會女性被性侵,或誘騙感情身體所造成的陰影吧
很多鄉民在那討論當時合不合意及法律問題其實很無聊
事實就是那名補教老師的行為確實造成了至少一個少女從此憂鬱痛苦終身甚至自殺了
而這樣類似的案件也不是第一樁
如果讀者真的能讀到她的痛
進而反思一些我們這社會對性、對性教育、對心理健康、對精神疾病的態度
那也許才是大眾從這悲劇中能得到的一些啟示與進步吧
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