會覺得當女生很累嗎 - 閒聊
By Irma
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看完日劇東京女子圖鑑以後突然有感而發,覺得當女生真的是一件頗累的事情~
尤其是成長的過程中,如果要滿足社會對女生的期待,那真的是個無底的洞啊。
先說說生活中的細節,每天要弄頭髮,研究化妝,保養,指甲,衣服,鞋子,穿搭,各種
飾品,如果本身就愛打扮的話可能會覺得還好,像我就把這些當成興趣,但如果本來就是
不愛打扮的女生還要被身邊的魯男嫌棄外在,太胖不行,奶太小不行,臉太大不行,皮膚
不好不行,腿太粗不行,身上所有的器官們都要賞心悅目才可以,對女生而言減肥也是一
輩子的事情,一胖毀所有,這句話影響了所有東方女生一輩子,這個社會對男女的外表
要求根本天差地遠。
再來社會或父母的期望,嫁個好老公,做一份好工作,在還能生孩子前趕快結婚生孩子,
男生就沒有生育的壓力了,女生大概30歲開始就會不斷被轟炸再不生以後就生不出來,社
會對"好媽媽"的要求也根深蒂固,爸爸只要稍微會洗個碗就是好爸爸了,只要有賺錢就是
合格的爸爸,如果性別對調,媽媽只賺錢根本不care小孩,一定會被當成很失職的母親。
自己一直以來都很努力再完成這些看似能得到社會認同的事情,但夜深人靜的時候看著鏡
子裡的自己,覺得好疲憊,即使得到了這些認同,我又真的快樂嗎?那樣的感覺...
雖然八卦仇女仇的要命,但如果給大家從新選擇性別的機會,真的會有人希望自己是女生
嗎?
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