這樣 是不是應該要分手了? - 閒聊
By Regina
at 2008-09-10T14:05
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這是某友人(女)發生的一個情況
問一下大家的想法
前情大致提要:
某女與正牌男友A交往一陣子後
女劈腿同時交往一男B
日子久了B想要當正的
女不肯覺得很煩 提出分手
B告訴女: " 如果妳讓A男知道你劈腿這件事他還願意原諒妳 我就離開 !"
女想說如果這樣能分 也算是一種解脫 也不奢望A男願意原諒 於是答應B男要求...
接著打給A男 攤開了這一切...
接著A男放下工作 趕至B男家附近接走該女
A男冷靜不發一語 女的相當自責 與崩潰
女的一度失控自殘.......最後 A男原諒這個女的
接著 A男不斷的安慰及鼓勵女生走出這個陰霾
讓女生覺得 真的很對不起心智成熟的A男 很慶幸自己能夠遇到他
也下定決心 不讓A男失望 她終於知道 什麼是愛...
A男只有一個要求 就是要讓她媽媽知道這件事情
原來 女生 常拿A男當擋箭牌 實際上去是跟B男出去 或是在B男家過夜
由於女兒平常都要上班 媽媽多少會有一些意見 不希望女兒晚上不休息還要出去
因此A男希望她媽媽 把對自己的誤會給釐清 證明自己的清白
於是媽媽知道後 很難過 還在電話裡跟A掉淚賠不是.....
之後跟女兒說: 你們分手吧 這個對男生來講是個陰影 對你們不好
女生: 好不容易 我的心裡終於有一個這麼確定的人 我做不到
A男也一直努力告訴媽媽 自己會盡全力 努力的 照顧她 不要擔心 要信任他
於是兩人 有漸漸恢復之前的感情 ....一個月後的某一天
A男告訴女生 妳知道嗎 我本來正在規劃要跟妳求婚的 可是發生這件事
我需要一些時間調適 我們一起加油吧 !
女生聽到更有許多自責與感動...........
日子這樣過了一年......
兩人感情大致不錯......
媽媽也因為愧疚 對A男非常好 把他當成自己的小孩一樣........
---------------------------------------------------------
直到月前........
女生發現自己有了......
告訴了A男....
A男: 我很開心我們有過這個小孩 可是現在還不是時候 我們不能這樣就生下來的...
有很多東西要考慮 經濟基礎也還不夠 我想要等更好的生活品質....
..........
我到時候會請假 我先幫妳訂坐月子中心的餐點 這個一定要調養好.....
女生知道A男的想法....似乎有些道理...但...心裡一整個難過.........
因為 他多麼想要保住這個小孩
他甚至想: 為什麼....選項裡面沒有結婚呢?
為什麼只要拿掉這條路呢 ?
如果 是對的人 時間提早有差嗎?
為什麼有些人可以奉子成婚? 是愛? 責任? 我呢 ?
那一兩週 女生不喝冰水 忌口許多食物 .....
心裡是多們想要這麼新生命.........
鬱悶的心情使得她終於找幾個朋友說出整個過程
" 一定要再跟A男 談一下 "
這是支持他再找A男談的力量
於是他再跟A男表達了自己想要小孩的想法.............
A男: " 妳不要這麼幼稚不想到以後好嗎?
我現在還沒有要結婚阿 妳這是在逼我結婚嗎 ?
以後的事很難說阿 我不敢給你什麼保證 ......
----------------------------------------------------------
上週 女生 努力試圖影響男生堅持要拿小孩的想法
但 還是失敗了 前天已經動手術了.........
女的越來越依賴這個男生 也許是因為那次事件讓她真正確認 這男的是對的人
即使拿掉小孩內心非常難過 但她相信 男生應該是會負責任的.....
----------------------------------------------
該分手了嗎? 不論男的是不是報復 或放不下之前的事件
這樣 還有可能會結婚嗎 ?
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PK兒
http://www.wretch.cc/blog/ekin520&category_id=10844034
--
問一下大家的想法
前情大致提要:
某女與正牌男友A交往一陣子後
女劈腿同時交往一男B
日子久了B想要當正的
女不肯覺得很煩 提出分手
B告訴女: " 如果妳讓A男知道你劈腿這件事他還願意原諒妳 我就離開 !"
女想說如果這樣能分 也算是一種解脫 也不奢望A男願意原諒 於是答應B男要求...
接著打給A男 攤開了這一切...
接著A男放下工作 趕至B男家附近接走該女
A男冷靜不發一語 女的相當自責 與崩潰
女的一度失控自殘.......最後 A男原諒這個女的
接著 A男不斷的安慰及鼓勵女生走出這個陰霾
讓女生覺得 真的很對不起心智成熟的A男 很慶幸自己能夠遇到他
也下定決心 不讓A男失望 她終於知道 什麼是愛...
A男只有一個要求 就是要讓她媽媽知道這件事情
原來 女生 常拿A男當擋箭牌 實際上去是跟B男出去 或是在B男家過夜
由於女兒平常都要上班 媽媽多少會有一些意見 不希望女兒晚上不休息還要出去
因此A男希望她媽媽 把對自己的誤會給釐清 證明自己的清白
於是媽媽知道後 很難過 還在電話裡跟A掉淚賠不是.....
之後跟女兒說: 你們分手吧 這個對男生來講是個陰影 對你們不好
女生: 好不容易 我的心裡終於有一個這麼確定的人 我做不到
A男也一直努力告訴媽媽 自己會盡全力 努力的 照顧她 不要擔心 要信任他
於是兩人 有漸漸恢復之前的感情 ....一個月後的某一天
A男告訴女生 妳知道嗎 我本來正在規劃要跟妳求婚的 可是發生這件事
我需要一些時間調適 我們一起加油吧 !
女生聽到更有許多自責與感動...........
日子這樣過了一年......
兩人感情大致不錯......
媽媽也因為愧疚 對A男非常好 把他當成自己的小孩一樣........
---------------------------------------------------------
直到月前........
女生發現自己有了......
告訴了A男....
A男: 我很開心我們有過這個小孩 可是現在還不是時候 我們不能這樣就生下來的...
有很多東西要考慮 經濟基礎也還不夠 我想要等更好的生活品質....
..........
我到時候會請假 我先幫妳訂坐月子中心的餐點 這個一定要調養好.....
女生知道A男的想法....似乎有些道理...但...心裡一整個難過.........
因為 他多麼想要保住這個小孩
他甚至想: 為什麼....選項裡面沒有結婚呢?
為什麼只要拿掉這條路呢 ?
如果 是對的人 時間提早有差嗎?
為什麼有些人可以奉子成婚? 是愛? 責任? 我呢 ?
那一兩週 女生不喝冰水 忌口許多食物 .....
心裡是多們想要這麼新生命.........
鬱悶的心情使得她終於找幾個朋友說出整個過程
" 一定要再跟A男 談一下 "
這是支持他再找A男談的力量
於是他再跟A男表達了自己想要小孩的想法.............
A男: " 妳不要這麼幼稚不想到以後好嗎?
我現在還沒有要結婚阿 妳這是在逼我結婚嗎 ?
以後的事很難說阿 我不敢給你什麼保證 ......
----------------------------------------------------------
上週 女生 努力試圖影響男生堅持要拿小孩的想法
但 還是失敗了 前天已經動手術了.........
女的越來越依賴這個男生 也許是因為那次事件讓她真正確認 這男的是對的人
即使拿掉小孩內心非常難過 但她相信 男生應該是會負責任的.....
----------------------------------------------
該分手了嗎? 不論男的是不是報復 或放不下之前的事件
這樣 還有可能會結婚嗎 ?
--
黑蜘蛛兒
抽撕破網兒
PK兒
http://www.wretch.cc/blog/ekin520&category_id=10844034
--
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