男同事對我說女生吃香蕉要一塊一塊撥?! - 閒聊
By Madame
at 2010-09-02T08:50
at 2010-09-02T08:50
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整串看下來除了囧還是囧
明明不過小事情而已
也可以討論到互相攻擊好幾頁
就因為認知不同就可以搞成這樣
原Po在對方的話根本不夠足以成為實際侵犯的話語之前
就主觀的聯想到不好的方向然後直接且武斷的認為是性騷擾
我也只能說I服了U
今天對方也許只是跟妳不熟的同事 那誰知道這樣就踩到大雷
原Po在主觀意識的認定之下有思考過對方的立意或者動機?
沒有馬 就說他性騷擾阿 而且超不舒服得我要復仇
這什麼碗糕
好吧我想我認為這種小事情對很多人來說都是大事情
不然這種根本沒什麼好討論的東西也不會落落長到傻眼
照這種惡性循環下去
那我也只能說 以後即使一位女性對男性很有好感
也盡量別說話好
多說多錯少說少錯不說不錯
冷眼旁觀就好 不需要多管閒事
雖然我是很早之前就這樣了
還是奉勸在討論這議題的男性們
不要抱持太多的自我正義心態面對女性
很多事情只要冷冷看著它從開始發生到結束就好
看多了自然會了解為什麼
台灣的女性沒有需要你們這麼多管閒事
她們自有自己的一套標準 而且通常都很多套到讓人眼花撩亂
除非你自認對她已經了解透徹
不然還是乖乖沉默吧
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明明不過小事情而已
也可以討論到互相攻擊好幾頁
就因為認知不同就可以搞成這樣
原Po在對方的話根本不夠足以成為實際侵犯的話語之前
就主觀的聯想到不好的方向然後直接且武斷的認為是性騷擾
我也只能說I服了U
今天對方也許只是跟妳不熟的同事 那誰知道這樣就踩到大雷
原Po在主觀意識的認定之下有思考過對方的立意或者動機?
沒有馬 就說他性騷擾阿 而且超不舒服得我要復仇
這什麼碗糕
好吧我想我認為這種小事情對很多人來說都是大事情
不然這種根本沒什麼好討論的東西也不會落落長到傻眼
照這種惡性循環下去
那我也只能說 以後即使一位女性對男性很有好感
也盡量別說話好
多說多錯少說少錯不說不錯
冷眼旁觀就好 不需要多管閒事
雖然我是很早之前就這樣了
還是奉勸在討論這議題的男性們
不要抱持太多的自我正義心態面對女性
很多事情只要冷冷看著它從開始發生到結束就好
看多了自然會了解為什麼
台灣的女性沒有需要你們這麼多管閒事
她們自有自己的一套標準 而且通常都很多套到讓人眼花撩亂
除非你自認對她已經了解透徹
不然還是乖乖沉默吧
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