我想我需要的不是「時間管理」 - 時間管理

By Edwina
at 2009-02-23T21:12
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我一直是一個對時間管理很沒辦法的人,也常懊惱自己的效率怎麼這麼差?每次下定決心
要在多久之內完成什麼事,總是做不到…不但如此,只要快到自己所設的時間死線,或是
有一堆事情等待完成,心裡就開始急了、慌了,到頭來什麼事情都完成不了
我看了幾本時間管理的書,也試過照書裡的方法去做,充分的切割我的時間,不讓時間有
一丁點兒浪費;把目標分大、中、小目標,時間分為年、月、週、日計畫,日計劃裡,所
有空檔時間立刻去完成瑣碎的代辦事項!剛開始的幾天,我過的充實極了,也忙碌極了,
讓自己不斷的奔跑,追趕時間,也被時間追趕,但撐不到兩個禮拜,就又精疲力盡。
很多人說:時間就是金錢!過去我對這句話一直都沒有質疑過,直到最近,才開始對時間
有另一種了解
我試著檢討自己過去做事的感覺,我發現在我的印象裡,絕大多數都是「好忙、好累」,
可是真的問我「忙什麼?」,我卻覺得好空虛,因為似乎,做那麼多事情卻沒被我真正記
下,沒被我用心過,我也沒真的學會了我該學的東西。
現在大三的我,不得不去思考未來,從「該怎麼改善我的生活方式?」,發現到其實我該
改變的,是我最根本的「對事情的態度」
每個人以前,都有練習跑步的經驗吧?我以前是個長跑健將,國高中運動會,都拿女生
1500公尺前三名;高中全校路跑賽,也在600多名的女生中拿下第二;我不是田徑隊,但
我常晨跑練習。我一直記得國中時某個體育老師教過我:如果你今天能力只能跑五圈,跑
完五圈後,咬著牙再多跑那一點,哪怕只是半圈,那半圈才會是你進步的分量,不然,你
永遠就只有那五圈的能耐。我總是這樣練長跑,有趣的是,雖沒特別練短跑,但我的短跑
也不差,400公尺也拿過全校第一。
為什麼講跑步的故事?因為我覺得,這和做事的態度,有異曲同工之妙
最近我看了「慢活」這本書,我發現原來過去,我是個「時間病」那麼重的人,一心想著
在這個早上要完成多少事、這小時內要完成什麼、睡覺睡十分鐘要起來…;慢活這本書提
醒我,什麼時候,我們重視「時間」,甚於重視「事情本身」了?常常我們把時間放在第
一順位,想著「我要在多少時間內完成這件事」,而不是「好好的用心做這件事」
可是,當像我這樣過去不認真做事的人,想要從頭去培養做事的能力和態度,一定要花上
不少時間的!比如說試著做海報、熟悉軟體等。過去的我,一定會因為時間病發作,覺得
自己「怎麼浪費這麼多時間」,而感到沮喪、焦躁,可是現在,我用另一種態度去面對這
樣的事。其實,這就像練習長跑一樣,你原本那五圈的能力,就是每個人的「耐心」,你
不可能為了得到多那半圈的能力,而不跑那五圈,就像你不能只為了想看二樓的風景,而
不建地基和一樓一樣!
知道這是一件必經的事,就去接受它,所有你要做的,就是用心在你當下的每一刻,做這
件事,就把他用心做好、做完。記得一開始別太完美主義,完美主義往往讓我把所有事情
都想的太複雜,試著去接受不完美,更可以摸索出做事的效率!
最近,我開始用心去做每件事,並且專心一志的做,我真心感到我的生活變的充實且有意
義;用心看一本書、用心做完工作、甚至用心休息。昨天,我僅僅是做一份系上簡介,就
花一整個下午去摸索PhotoImpact,但我覺得很值得,也從裡面經驗到很多做事的態度,
以後我知道,在面對其他事情時,我可以用更好的做事方法,更有效率的去完成,因為我
有經驗了。練習那種專心的感覺,練到能很快的進入狀態,是需要時間的,需要跑那五圈
的,但當我有能力去跑1500,也會更有能力去跑800、400公尺!
我終於知道我現在,不是學著如何分配我的時間,先學如何用心去生活,才是我現在最需
要的。
分享自己的經驗給大家,希望能多少有些幫助。:)
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