台中需不需要讀私立國中? - 台中

By Dorothy
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※ 引述《chungrew (work hard, play hard)》之銘言:
: 開頭先講重點:
: 「家庭教育與家長的教養責任」很重要(以下恕刪)
:
(手機排版請見諒)
非常同意這篇,家教才是最重要的!
下面小弟分享自己經驗
母親是公立國小老師,從國小就到她任職的學校就讀。
因為是常態分班,班上從有錢的同學到89都有。同學相處上不覺得有什麼問題,反而知道怎麼跟89交陪,其實滿有趣的。最重要的是人與人之間的尊重,不因為家庭環境不同給人差別待遇,人家自然也把你當朋友。因為家教的關係,時常與母親分享學校的點滴。有家長的陪伴,其實不會因無法分辨對錯,而被所謂的的壞同學帶壞(其實常常也只是主觀劃分,不見得有好壞)。實際認識不同生活背景的同學,常常讓人能更珍惜現有的生活。
因為小學成績不錯,上國中時我媽很多同事都問為什麼不送去私中。但我媽相信讀家旁的學校,有更多時間與家人相處,因此還是去就讀我家旁邊有名的公立“流氓學校”。說是流氓學校,但其實老師們教學都很認真,訓導主任也積極管理,不像外傳得糟糕。來自各階層的同學一定有,但老話一句,互相尊重,真心交陪,人家不會沒事故意衝康。
我那年考基測,分數可以上一中,當然我家再度發揮就近就讀的精神,讀住家附近的文華高中。母校社區國中的老師感到很惋惜,少了一位上一中的校友,不過也都是給我們的選擇尊重。老實說讀文華真的有很多優勢,除了性別比以外,離家近就是可以上課鐘響再出門,每天睡覺或讀書硬是比同學多半小時,不用花很多時間通勤。你說不用通勤去水利大樓補習?噢對我沒補習,都靠老師上課教的。
大學指考時,本來一直想讀台大電機系,但因為種種原因還是就讀了台大醫學系,錯過這一波晶片分紅浪潮,難過。在台大醫學系,當然很多朋友都是SOP衛曉明五權居仁明星學校上來的,但也不乏一路公立學校的同學。真正共同點是...家境都不錯Orz。雖然有的人說讀明星學校建立人脈很重要,但真正的決定性因子還是自己是什麼人,怎麼與人相處,有什麼實力。
總而言之,一路社區國小國中高中上來,我不曾後悔過,反而多了很多與家人相處的機會,也對社會有更多包容。爸媽給予的家教,才是立足社會的根本。
謹以這篇文章,分享先慈的教育理念。
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: 開頭先講重點:
: 「家庭教育與家長的教養責任」很重要(以下恕刪)
:
(手機排版請見諒)
非常同意這篇,家教才是最重要的!
下面小弟分享自己經驗
母親是公立國小老師,從國小就到她任職的學校就讀。
因為是常態分班,班上從有錢的同學到89都有。同學相處上不覺得有什麼問題,反而知道怎麼跟89交陪,其實滿有趣的。最重要的是人與人之間的尊重,不因為家庭環境不同給人差別待遇,人家自然也把你當朋友。因為家教的關係,時常與母親分享學校的點滴。有家長的陪伴,其實不會因無法分辨對錯,而被所謂的的壞同學帶壞(其實常常也只是主觀劃分,不見得有好壞)。實際認識不同生活背景的同學,常常讓人能更珍惜現有的生活。
因為小學成績不錯,上國中時我媽很多同事都問為什麼不送去私中。但我媽相信讀家旁的學校,有更多時間與家人相處,因此還是去就讀我家旁邊有名的公立“流氓學校”。說是流氓學校,但其實老師們教學都很認真,訓導主任也積極管理,不像外傳得糟糕。來自各階層的同學一定有,但老話一句,互相尊重,真心交陪,人家不會沒事故意衝康。
我那年考基測,分數可以上一中,當然我家再度發揮就近就讀的精神,讀住家附近的文華高中。母校社區國中的老師感到很惋惜,少了一位上一中的校友,不過也都是給我們的選擇尊重。老實說讀文華真的有很多優勢,除了性別比以外,離家近就是可以上課鐘響再出門,每天睡覺或讀書硬是比同學多半小時,不用花很多時間通勤。你說不用通勤去水利大樓補習?噢對我沒補習,都靠老師上課教的。
大學指考時,本來一直想讀台大電機系,但因為種種原因還是就讀了台大醫學系,錯過這一波晶片分紅浪潮,難過。在台大醫學系,當然很多朋友都是SOP衛曉明五權居仁明星學校上來的,但也不乏一路公立學校的同學。真正共同點是...家境都不錯Orz。雖然有的人說讀明星學校建立人脈很重要,但真正的決定性因子還是自己是什麼人,怎麼與人相處,有什麼實力。
總而言之,一路社區國小國中高中上來,我不曾後悔過,反而多了很多與家人相處的機會,也對社會有更多包容。爸媽給予的家教,才是立足社會的根本。
謹以這篇文章,分享先慈的教育理念。
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當醫生或主管.你需認識或管理8+9.除非你是低階勞工.
醫院有一職務醫生都很客氣.幫你溝通很難搞的病人

By Yedda
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較差的環境影響,相信原po家人都蠻有智慧的。

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的書
在醫學系裡我也覺得自己像智障

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IT

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家教比較好

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By Xanthe
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他們國中只有三位建中 他是其中一位
不過他家很有錢就是了
個人覺得影響力是 家庭>學校(朋友)
原po就是家庭的buff上滿
即使身在公立學校的debuff裡也有無敵星星的感覺

By Megan
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很高.他媽是善用其很”一般工作”给孩子最棒的教育

By Necoo
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By Adele
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但這串也有很多優秀的人 在公立國中過得很痛苦

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,最差就是碰運氣

By Sarah
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文華也是好學校,不會被拖累。然後除了家教之外,
補習對於資質好的學生,幫助有限,反而會覺得浪費
時間。

By Megan
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流氓的學校,其實還是有比較大機率被帶歪的吧(畢竟
每天長時間在學校)原po的重點就是不管念哪裡,家庭
教養與支持很重要~

By Hedy
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哈哈哈

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By Tristan Cohan
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的價值。

By Elvira
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一代都是新的挑戰,要家長與小孩一起面對與解決

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特例中的特例嗎

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好奇是哪個科別?

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By Gilbert
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po的能力與觀念 但特例就是特例 一般人追求明星學校

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By Isla
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分享嗎

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薪水工時被告的風險都比不上

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職業,還有積福報

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考上台大醫大概五年一個吧
我記得你的榜單四年前都還貼在學校
某一樓的柱子上

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來的

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的讓人覺得讀私校也沒多高尚,只是另一種層面的8+9
體現

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麼擠

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By Andy
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,但即使天資聰穎如原po,若無令先堂家教嚴謹,如今
難有這般成績,期待您的良心仁術,感恩。

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By Poppy
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,,但即使天資聰穎如原po,若無令先堂家教嚴謹,如
今難有這般成績,期待您的良心仁術,感恩。

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By Tristan Cohan
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By Donna
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麼高中關係不大。一中強的是同學和自由的校風,不是
老師

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事欸XDD

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錢買7-11,不要餐餐硬買星巴克, 我姪子是能買星巴
克但家裡附近就是7-11 所以就買7-11懶得去星巴克,(
全家都懶

By Robert
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除非說要一早起來坐車懶
(@_@;)

By Catherine
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你走在路上有8+9莫名其妙過來揍你一頓嗎?

By Harry
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社會上會讓你變壞的地方太多了

By Ivy
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我是不認為溫室裡養出的花朵 長大自律性會多好

By Caroline
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By Necoo
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成績好的玩,不愛讀書的自然跟不愛讀書的玩,老師
位置也是這樣排

By Todd Johnson
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By Yedda
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我從小學爸媽都離開人世,
從小就被爸媽親友扶養,考不上高中,就讀職校,學
習資源不足情況下,臉皮厚跑去其他學校精進,直到
考上牙醫科系,雖然不是台大那種頂尖學校,但盡力
了上陽明 ..

By Dora
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By Mary
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By Hamiltion
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By Genevieve
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會跟您說抱歉

By Tom
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By Donna
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By Dorothy
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By Anonymous
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By Oscar
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明白

By Adele
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局背心的人站在後面拿錄影機

By Anthony
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但原po真的厲害,中山國中接文華上台大醫

By Charlotte
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By Zenobia
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學校,不見得會一直爛下去;過去輝煌的學校,也可能
走下坡沒落。

By James
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By Noah
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By Kama
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衝擊。

By Bethany
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看板大分享,一定是很棒醫生 ~

By Ula
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By Zenobia
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我交代怎麼帶尚未出生的孫子,適當關心、適性發展

By Wallis
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By Edward Lewis
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小孩要讀公立私立?老實說,我不知道,今年才要回台
中執業,很多事情都還沒做好功課。但若是讓我小孩讀
母校,事實上我也是樂觀其成。

By Thomas
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法一樣,新制度可能自己考不上台大醫了

By Olga
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By Olga
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