殊途同歸的點餐方法省錢會惹怒朋友? - 省錢
By Dinah
at 2011-11-26T13:20
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我覺得以甜點跟車票的例子來說,
如果是我,我並不會生氣,和朋友交換一下甜點,跟朋友買張車票,
其實都是彼此互惠。雖然買票例子看起來帳面對方賺20,但其實我省了買票手續
和時間和30元 (150*2*0.9=270)。
我不知道賣票原PO 是否當初買了很多囤貨,所以很大方跟朋友分享,
如果是我,東西不多時我可能會比較傾向自用,除非朋友真的要花很多冤枉錢,
我不忍看他被坑。這中間的差異,微妙的心理思維,到底是真的無私想幫對方,
還是其實心裡有算到自己的好處,這完全是個人自由心證了。
但這兩個例子的共通點在於:
雖然節儉是好事,總數和划算也很好,但把節儉的價值觀理所當然地加到別人身上,
要拉著別人幫你省、跟妳一起省或幫他省,其實都是一種不尊重。
會讓人有被利用或被佔便宜的感覺。
節儉或生性精明沒什麼不好,我覺得還很好,但一定要懂得分寸。
我爸常說,省要省自己。意即不能利用別人、佔別人便宜。
古人也有一句話,吃虧就是佔便宜。
這可能是生性精明的人更應該謹記的。
自己吃飯時一碗陽春麵很好,跟朋友吃飯時,寧可自己多付幾塊錢,也不要讓朋友
覺得吃虧。這是人跟人相交時的溫厚和寬大。這時真的不用算那麼精。
老一輩也說,留一點給別人探聽。
所謂探聽,就是探聽你這人平常待人處事、為人如何。
跟錢財比起來,一個人的聲譽才是真正的、強大的財富,
(所以很多大公司寧願賠錢也不願意損及商譽)
待人寬厚才是真正內心的寬厚,內心寬厚自己也會快樂。
這才是有智慧的精明,才是有理智的節儉。
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把物質留給別人,把福氣留給自己。
感恩帶來溫馨,用心就有力量。
~證嚴法師《靜思語》
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