平衡性轉位也成功懷孕了! - 好孕
By Ethan
at 2021-06-04T11:15
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想跟大家分享,關於我們家族平衡性轉位的血淚史,希望能幫助到跟我們一樣的人們:)
文長 (此為代替沒帳號的好友發文)
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[幼時]
因為我媽媽懷我弟弟時已經是高齡產婦,所以二十多年前有做羊膜穿刺的檢查,那個時候
就發現從我弟弟開始,連同我、我爸爸,都有13-14對染色體平衡性轉位的問題,
但那時醫生雲淡風輕地說:之後找對象小心一些,不要找到也一樣的就可以喔!
因為我們一切發展都正常,這還成為我們開玩笑的話題:哎~看不出來我染色體異常吧XD
沒想到這竟成為我們人生一個很大的考驗...
[長大後]
偶然聽到家中長輩在說,家裡的兩位遠房堂姊結了婚卻遲遲不生孩子,年輕人好奇怪~~
八卦耳語慢慢變成:聽說是一直流產,小孩生不下來耶!
最後結局是一位堂姊的先生外遇離婚,另一位堂姊高齡產婦產下一個可愛的妹妹
[終於也輪到我結婚]
偶然與兩位堂姊見面約吃飯,她們才吞吞吐吐地詢問我與我先生的未來生子規劃
沒想到我們大家都是遺傳到來自爺爺輩的平衡性轉位染色體,
我也沒想到,這就是她們一直反覆流產的原因,而這就是我未來的命運
[就醫過程]這才是重點吧哈哈哈
2019結婚後,我與先生懷孕了,過程中我不禁想著:我們還是滿幸運的吧,沒這麼難啊!
在此同時,我們去了台大基因醫學的林芯伃醫師以及馬偕遺傳的林炫沛醫師求診
確定我與我先生的染色體圖譜,台大林醫師只說:要多小心,記得補充葉酸,希望順利
沒想到肚子裡的胚胎直到八-九週都還沒有心跳,產檢醫師就直接開藥讓我回家吃了
看著馬桶裡的血,和以往的經血感受不同,那是我沒機會長大的寶寶
過了一段傷心的日子,洗澡時和著洗澡水一邊偷哭,先生發現了也進來一起痛哭
接著我們發憤圖強,開始往人工生殖這一塊邁進!
從木生劉政鴻醫師開始,堂姊是在他那邊試管成功,
但他當時並不鼓勵高齡產婦的堂姊做PGS,一來是耗損太多可能有機會的囊胚,
二來是太傷財,所以她每次都是植入數個受精卵之後,再看是否著床成功
經歷好多好多次的傷心,到最後終於成功著床、順利生產。
堂姊回顧那一段黑暗的時候,她已經不記得到底經過幾次取卵、植入、失敗,
她只能記得走一走會突然蹲在路邊哭,為什麼是我?到底還要多久?
我們求診劉醫師時,他人真的好好~聽到我們不想走堂姊那條反覆流產的路、想做PGS時
他隨即幫我們詢問木生合作的實驗室,發現沒辦法滿足我們需求時,他也退掛退費的乾脆
還幫我寫了張紙條,轉介到台大陳思原醫師,他們好像是學長學弟的關係(笑)
在這之前,我個人秉持著不多查資料、越查越焦慮的心態,所以看到陳醫師的病人這麼多
我才發現我們好像掛到一個有點厲害的醫師,正如大家對他的印象:話少、冷冷慢慢地
但旁邊的助理動作很快XDDD,可能是陳醫師的動作太不疾不徐,大家都會晚下班
接下來進到生殖中心療程,我們算是很積極在療程中,從2020的三月第一次囊胚全數陣亡
陳醫師強烈建議我補充DHEA+D3,吃了一個月後,五月、六月、七月都有收集到健康囊胚
數量我已經無法記得,大約都是3-5之間,我們還苦惱著:篩選出來太多健康的怎麼辦啊
結果根本想太多...
陳思原醫師把我們又轉回林芯伃醫師做PGS,12個送檢,正常居然只有2個
這2個還有可能跟我一樣是有轉位問題但會健康長大的孩子,我不想債留子孫阿!!!!
總之還是先植入了,2020的九月植入第一次,我還發問陳醫師:會植入兩個變雙胞嗎:D
陳醫師:不會。一個一個來就好。打破我想要一次就解決的願望~
還好陳醫師的專業值得信賴,因為第一次使用自然週期植入失敗,唉~
回診時,我們問需要多調養休息一個月嗎,等十一月再植入?
陳醫師:不用吧,這個週期直接來,這次換人工週期,我們換換手氣。
我們真的很感謝陳醫師以及生殖中心的團隊,雖然看診時陳醫師總是淡淡地、少話地
但是兩次植入他都好細心、好專注,植入後都會為我以及植入的寶寶加油打氣
第二次植入的囊胚比較小,陳醫師特別囑咐我們多給它一點時間,
因為也是我目前的最後一顆,所以陳醫師也格外慎重、格外小心
過程中我們沒有偷驗孕,深怕又像第一次植入一樣失敗,因為過程心理壓力太大
我還跟先生說:如果這次失敗,我們就離婚吧...我受不了看你也失望的心情...
我自己一個人可以過得很好的,你去找別人跟你生孩子吧...
第二次植入終於成功,歐耶!我們抱著戒慎恐懼的心情走到現在,現在已經39週了
過程中,每周都去新竹竹蓮寺拜拜,每天的作業就是念普門品
這種無法人定勝天的事情,只好拼命拼命乞求上天聽見我們的聲音
給我們一點幸運、一點力量,一個身為平凡媽媽的機會
這條路真的很漫長,各位真的辛苦了,
特別困難的是 看不到終點、一片黑暗的感覺
找到值得信賴的團隊,可以在黑暗之中拉著我們的手
可能現在還沒看到亮光,但我們會知道出口就在前方
祝福大家一切順利,平平安安地度過疫情考驗、求子關卡
在此提供三份好運棉,聽說快生產前的好運棉也滿有效的?!
意者可站內信,因為數量有限,超過的話便不另行通知~
如果也有相同問題,或是想進一步討論的準爸爸、準媽媽們,也歡迎站內~我會代為轉達
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