家境好的小孩什麼都比較會 - 閒聊
By Caitlin
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(很久以前在這裡寫過同樣概念的文章,可惜被洗掉了只好再說一遍)
先引用最近流傳的一張圖片吧
http://buzzorange.com/2015/06/09/on-a-plate/
一張圖片讓你秒懂:貧富差距不可能靠教育翻轉,只能不斷階級複製下去
我的學歷勉強可以算是人生勝利組吧
但是仔細檢視我的人生
其實多數的成就都來自於父母的給予,換句話說也就是來自於家庭與出身
我的父母不用早出晚歸的工作,我的作業每天晚上一定會被檢查過一次
老師寫在聯絡簿上的告狀絕對會被拿來檢視一番然後被管教
他們有閒錢送我去補習,才藝也學了鋼琴、爵士舞、素描,即使不專精
要上大學時,筆電、學費也都不需要煩惱,我可以不背貸款的出社會
讀書雖然我自己畢竟也有努力,可是如果不是父母從小培養念書習慣、培養閱讀
我又怎麼可能在書桌前坐的久?
所以我的讀書成就真的是"我的"成就嗎?
跟真正的有錢人相比,我這些可能都不算什麼
我以後也只會是個受薪階級,無法像有錢人一樣爽爽的賺資本所得
但是往下一看,我其實是很幸運的了
所以中產階級以上的人實在沒有理由去責怪窮困家庭的小孩「為什麼不努力」
一開始根本就立足點不一樣啊!
(說的詳細一點,貧窮與階級影響最根本的是心理健康、身體健康
如果這兩項都沒有,到底有什麼能拿去跟人競爭?
聽過白廳研究(Whitehall studies)嗎?
即使是中產階級以上的人口相比較,身體健康狀態依然會與社經地位成正比
換句話說,越窮者越病,心理健康亦越差)
說這些話,並不是要人放棄努力
因為對所有人來說,期待制度可以營造階級流動實在太飄渺
要改變階級還是要一切靠自己努力
但是在心懷輕蔑的吐出「你們為什麼不努力」這樣缺乏思考的指責時
請回頭想一想:你的努力真的是"你的"努力嗎?
抑或是"你父母製造一個了你努力有回報的環境"?
了解階級複製,就不要再輕蔑的指責別人不努力
用鼓勵的方式鼓舞努力想翻身的人們,才是真正的知識分子
※ 引述《oopshug (哈哥)》之銘言:
: 說風涼話都很厲害,
: 「多讀點書」、「多學點技能」、「精進自己啊」、「為什麼不努力一點」。
: 天資尚且不同更何況所處的環境。
: 他所處的環境、曾經歷的一切,都是他成為現在的原因。
: 有的人可以在逆境中成長,但不是每個人都一樣。
: 身為一個人你不能不去為其他人著想,
: 如果每個人都只看著與自己平行的高度,
: 那這社會就不會流動也不會有階層轉移。
: 不要自大地以為因為自己成功了所以大家都能和你一樣,
: 醒醒吧,
: 你之所以謂為成功,
: 就是因為相對於你有一群人被謂為失敗,
: 如果每個人都是成功,那也只是平庸。
: 另外一堆人喜歡說中產階級和中低收仇富,
: 但最好笑的是這些仇恨根本是上層階級自己創造的。
: 資本主義的自由市場相信涓滴效應,
: 也就是窮人會因為富人受惠於減稅和營利而跟著享受到好處,
: 但事實就根本不是這麼一回事。
: 管理階層只想著cost down,
: 其他的很難,所以只能從最好銃康的人事下手,
: 高薪低報、不合理的責任制、東扣西扣的規則等,
: 這就是上流階層自己挑起的階級對立,
: 所以根本怪不得別人。
: 最後,
: 可以不要拿那種完全不努力和努力了確沒結果的人比較嗎?
: 就不是同個起跑點硬要比較是想幹麻?
: 你看不到那些平庸或失敗者的努力不代表他沒努力,
: 混為一談根本好笑。
--
先引用最近流傳的一張圖片吧
http://buzzorange.com/2015/06/09/on-a-plate/
一張圖片讓你秒懂:貧富差距不可能靠教育翻轉,只能不斷階級複製下去
我的學歷勉強可以算是人生勝利組吧
但是仔細檢視我的人生
其實多數的成就都來自於父母的給予,換句話說也就是來自於家庭與出身
我的父母不用早出晚歸的工作,我的作業每天晚上一定會被檢查過一次
老師寫在聯絡簿上的告狀絕對會被拿來檢視一番然後被管教
他們有閒錢送我去補習,才藝也學了鋼琴、爵士舞、素描,即使不專精
要上大學時,筆電、學費也都不需要煩惱,我可以不背貸款的出社會
讀書雖然我自己畢竟也有努力,可是如果不是父母從小培養念書習慣、培養閱讀
我又怎麼可能在書桌前坐的久?
所以我的讀書成就真的是"我的"成就嗎?
跟真正的有錢人相比,我這些可能都不算什麼
我以後也只會是個受薪階級,無法像有錢人一樣爽爽的賺資本所得
但是往下一看,我其實是很幸運的了
所以中產階級以上的人實在沒有理由去責怪窮困家庭的小孩「為什麼不努力」
一開始根本就立足點不一樣啊!
(說的詳細一點,貧窮與階級影響最根本的是心理健康、身體健康
如果這兩項都沒有,到底有什麼能拿去跟人競爭?
聽過白廳研究(Whitehall studies)嗎?
即使是中產階級以上的人口相比較,身體健康狀態依然會與社經地位成正比
換句話說,越窮者越病,心理健康亦越差)
說這些話,並不是要人放棄努力
因為對所有人來說,期待制度可以營造階級流動實在太飄渺
要改變階級還是要一切靠自己努力
但是在心懷輕蔑的吐出「你們為什麼不努力」這樣缺乏思考的指責時
請回頭想一想:你的努力真的是"你的"努力嗎?
抑或是"你父母製造一個了你努力有回報的環境"?
了解階級複製,就不要再輕蔑的指責別人不努力
用鼓勵的方式鼓舞努力想翻身的人們,才是真正的知識分子
※ 引述《oopshug (哈哥)》之銘言:
: 說風涼話都很厲害,
: 「多讀點書」、「多學點技能」、「精進自己啊」、「為什麼不努力一點」。
: 天資尚且不同更何況所處的環境。
: 他所處的環境、曾經歷的一切,都是他成為現在的原因。
: 有的人可以在逆境中成長,但不是每個人都一樣。
: 身為一個人你不能不去為其他人著想,
: 如果每個人都只看著與自己平行的高度,
: 那這社會就不會流動也不會有階層轉移。
: 不要自大地以為因為自己成功了所以大家都能和你一樣,
: 醒醒吧,
: 你之所以謂為成功,
: 就是因為相對於你有一群人被謂為失敗,
: 如果每個人都是成功,那也只是平庸。
: 另外一堆人喜歡說中產階級和中低收仇富,
: 但最好笑的是這些仇恨根本是上層階級自己創造的。
: 資本主義的自由市場相信涓滴效應,
: 也就是窮人會因為富人受惠於減稅和營利而跟著享受到好處,
: 但事實就根本不是這麼一回事。
: 管理階層只想著cost down,
: 其他的很難,所以只能從最好銃康的人事下手,
: 高薪低報、不合理的責任制、東扣西扣的規則等,
: 這就是上流階層自己挑起的階級對立,
: 所以根本怪不得別人。
: 最後,
: 可以不要拿那種完全不努力和努力了確沒結果的人比較嗎?
: 就不是同個起跑點硬要比較是想幹麻?
: 你看不到那些平庸或失敗者的努力不代表他沒努力,
: 混為一談根本好笑。
--
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