家人生病怎麼調適上班心情 - 閒聊

By Lucy
at 2020-08-19T22:04
at 2020-08-19T22:04
Table of Contents
如標題
先說一下我的家庭背景
土生土長台東野孩子
大概2-4歲左右爸爸過世 留下我和姊姊
爺爺奶奶怕耽誤媽媽幸福叫她離開台東改嫁
奶奶行動不便所以由爺爺扛起一家
奶奶過世後 姊姊大學在北部我在南
畢業後我也跑上台北工作
爺爺獨自在台東生活
一直覺得爺爺身體健康會活到100歲
直到七月中因為心肌梗塞被送加護
在加護病房住三天後回家就整個壞掉
像中風一樣嗯嗯阿阿說不出話
原本還能走路到坐也坐不起來
有糖尿病左腳發黑腐爛積膿
六月底回去一週陪他 才短短不到兩個月
身體變化太讓人傷心
醫生說大概就這一兩天了要我們做心理準備
加上農曆七月不是好月.... 家人也都警戒著
上週休兩天回台東 放心不下又再請五天
到今天才回北部 火車上還接到客戶電話~’~
店長說不可能不知盡頭的請下去
才換新工作 還都需要學 還需要經驗
在我離開爺爺身邊時跟他說
「我要去坐車囉!再等我五天我就回來了」
看到他點點頭表示聽到 我整個爆淚哭到不行
乾媽說就再請假吧 醫生都說剩這一兩天了
但我真的不知道該怎麼開口
加上我也會心繫工作
也或許爺爺還會再活好幾個月呀
希望版友們可以幫爺爺打氣
也給我一些建議 努力調適好狀態
謝謝大家
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By Vanessa
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不懂你怎這麼樂觀爺爺還會再活好幾個月@@

By Catherine
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By David
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特別北漂,還犧牲掉陪爺爺的最後一段時光

By David
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By Isabella
at 2020-09-15T19:34
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常遺憾。但你有你的考量,只能替你加油了

By Suhail Hany
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By Erin
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By Mia
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身,我外公也是這樣走的

By Freda
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By Lily
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By Madame
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台北的收穫

By Barb Cronin
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情現在不把握就再也沒機會了,加油!

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只有我叫她的時候她才會有反應

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跟店長談看看?加油

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By Faithe
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真的

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By Victoria
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這份工作

By Hedwig
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By Anonymous
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By Faithe
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業 不能一直請 希望爺爺再等我五天去陪他

By Freda
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By Catherine
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By Dorothy
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By Gilbert
at 2020-11-04T18:22
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然上司是很過份,但做出最終決定的是自己,怨不了人。
不管怎麼選,爺爺都不會怪你的,只要內心能說服自己就
可以了。加油。

By Blanche
at 2020-11-06T16:28
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為主

By Mason
at 2020-11-08T14:35
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班也許也是一種轉移注意力的方法。請盡量吃健康睡好一
點,精神不好也容易出事,保重自己才能多陪伴家人。

By Lily
at 2020-11-10T12:41
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是這樣 快跟爺爺說 你很愛他 謝謝他的看顧

By Connor
at 2020-11-12T10:48
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By Emily
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By Rebecca
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By Leila
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By Charlotte
at 2020-11-20T03:14
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責自己,相信爺爺ㄧ定會體諒的

By Dorothy
at 2020-11-22T01:20
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好,你現在可能覺得工作很重要,幾年以後回頭看,只會覺得
很遺憾

By Ingrid
at 2020-11-23T23:26
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人生,自己爺爺以前是腳爛到可看到筋才截肢~~

By Elma
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By Mia
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By Steve
at 2020-11-29T17:46
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以衡量現在該怎麼做了

By Leila
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By Doris
at 2020-12-03T13:59
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切平安及順利

By Tristan Cohan
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過最後的相處時光而活在後悔裡

By Rosalind
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By Jack
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By Emily
at 2020-12-11T06:25
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世你不在跟工作辭掉找下一個哪個你比較後悔

By Edward Lewis
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By James
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間

By Joe
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次 你別錯過讓他無遺憾離開

By Lydia
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By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2020-12-20T20:57
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孝,最後一段時光有家人輪流陪著就好,今天換作是你
,你會希望小孩離職陪伴在你身邊?

By James
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By Frederica
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By Quanna
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By Brianna
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的後悔

By Rae
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By Olga
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,在我要回去的當天稍早過世了,如果知道我會馬上回家QQ老人
家病況變化極快,看似好轉也可能瞬間離開

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By Quanna
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By Rebecca
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後截肢,住院,或是喪禮也都會是ㄧ大筆開銷,也要想想
。不能陪在身邊固然是遺憾,經濟壓力也是現實

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爺爺吧!

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By Andy
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經沒辦法好好聊天說話了

By Suhail Hany
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的

By Jack
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By William
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在一瞬間 祝福你

By Jake
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By Anonymous
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By Gary
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By Dora
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量去完成,能好好告別是幸運的

By Faithe
at 2021-02-08T19:44
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處的時光了不是嗎?已經衡量過的決定,就這麼做吧,畢竟也
還有奶奶和其他長輩要照顧,這決定很艱難但爺爺一定知道的
。當下有盡力陪伴,就不要執著在最後那一刻了。

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By Erin
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By David
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但上週五她罕見地加班 媽媽心肌梗塞忽然走了
希望爺爺好好的
但也希望您做好忽然需要道別的心理準備
加油

By Regina
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著阿公

By Kelly
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請假吧 我當初也是這樣

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By Lucy
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By Eden
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無法專心就裸辭了,有學貸百萬的負債。目前工作不
好找,但只要不執著薪水和內容,一定有工作,人生
很長,以後肯定也工作不完,可是跟家人相聚的最後
時光,如果因為幾萬塊薪水就錯過了,肯定會後悔。

By Jacky
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By Madame
at 2021-03-17T07:47
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別這種後悔是永遠沒有彌補機會的

By Eden
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By Ida
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By Queena
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By Susan
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By Emily
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我很慶幸最後一晚睡醫院陪她
公司不是慈善事業,長期請假不容易

By Carolina Franco
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By William
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陪伴也好 跟著直覺走吧

By Agnes
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By Eartha
at 2021-04-03T14:45
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會 很穩定的伴侶同居生活 回老家每天陪伴家人治療直到他
變好 這一切會很辛苦 但你會在陪伴的過程中得到更多比上
班更值得的東西 我也將近半年沒收入跟前老闆翻臉 還是不
後悔這個決定

By Hamiltion
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By Zora
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By Frederica
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By Liam
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By Hedwig
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By Mason
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By Jack
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By Kumar
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有後悔的情緒呢…

By Kyle
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By Xanthe
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By Frederic
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By Dinah
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By Doris
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By Edith
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By Candice
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線但不知台東有沒有幫助

By Connor
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By Audriana
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By Gary
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這樣而已,那也沒什麼。

By Enid
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By Brianna
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By Kama
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By Cara
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at 2021-05-15T21:07
一直躺在病床上~如果病人是清醒有意識當然別放棄繼續加油~
如果已經是昏迷狀態就別再折磨病人了~通知親友過來探望~提
前簽放棄急救同意書~準備後續要處理的事比較實在

By Thomas
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By Sierra Rose
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By Damian
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By Sierra Rose
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By Charlotte
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By Leila
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By Damian
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By Hedda
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By Elvira
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By Blanche
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By Skylar Davis
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By Quintina
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By Xanthe
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By Elma
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By Caitlin
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輩子

By Dora
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By Catherine
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By Edwina
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By Elma
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的日子了,不過還是自己決定

By Lydia
at 2021-06-23T07:16
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By Joe
at 2021-06-25T05:22
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吧

By Ida
at 2021-06-27T03:29
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陪他。做決定的人是你,以後不會後悔就好

By Anthony
at 2021-06-29T01:35
at 2021-06-29T01:35
好好過以後的生活,就選那一種,爺爺也會了解並支持,
時刻把他放在心上就好。
另外爺爺太辛苦了,我會希望他早日脫離苦痛,靜靜送他
離開,不讓他牽掛。

By Tracy
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By Tracy
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By Sarah
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By Lauren
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東想西的

By Lydia
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By Todd Johnson
at 2021-07-10T14:14
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說,多陪家人久一點

By Bethany
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By Yedda
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By Megan
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By Dorothy
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By Ursula
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By Sandy
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By Sarah
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By Hedwig
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By Gary
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By Mason
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By Emily
at 2021-07-31T17:25
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有了 不論選哪個都有代價 不要後悔 加油QQ

By Madame
at 2021-08-02T15:31
at 2021-08-02T15:31
會很後悔 到時候也沒心力上班
乾脆離職順便當作放個長假轉換心情再出發

By Selena
at 2021-08-04T13:38
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By Aaliyah
at 2021-08-06T11:44
at 2021-08-06T11:44
公就在我回去的前一天(原本要回家那天)走了 只想
說不要做會後悔的決定

By Donna
at 2021-08-08T09:51
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By Ingrid
at 2021-08-10T07:57
at 2021-08-10T07:57
不要有一輩子的遺憾,也說了兩年才存款到五萬,真的不是很
值得北飄的工作。如果只是要大家安慰你,說“還是工作重要
,沒辦法陪爺爺最後一段路不是你的錯blabla”,我會覺得你
大可不用回文。

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at 2021-08-12T06:04
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By Isabella
at 2021-08-14T04:10
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By Frederica
at 2021-08-16T02:17
at 2021-08-16T02:17
已

By Donna
at 2021-08-18T00:23
at 2021-08-18T00:23

By George
at 2021-08-19T22:29
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By Frederica
at 2021-08-21T20:36
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at 2021-08-23T18:42
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at 2021-08-25T16:49
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By Lauren
at 2021-08-27T14:55
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By Vanessa
at 2021-08-29T13:02
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By Quanna
at 2021-08-31T11:08
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By Carol
at 2021-09-02T09:15
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at 2021-09-04T07:21
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at 2021-09-06T05:28
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By Xanthe
at 2021-09-08T03:34
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By Lily
at 2021-09-10T01:40
at 2021-09-10T01:40
爺吧

By Sandy
at 2021-09-11T23:47
at 2021-09-11T23:47
過夜,結果就沒有下週了...每個人狀況不一樣,希望你能不
留遺憾。

By Jacky
at 2021-09-13T21:53
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By Yedda
at 2021-09-15T20:00
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By Gilbert
at 2021-09-17T18:06
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By Jacob
at 2021-09-19T16:13
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By Victoria
at 2021-09-21T14:19
at 2021-09-21T14:19
東要去台北,沒存款就吃家裡住家裡也花不到多少錢吧

By Isabella
at 2021-09-23T12:26
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By Bennie
at 2021-09-25T10:32
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By Zanna
at 2021-09-27T08:38
at 2021-09-27T08:38
是店長的大部分都是餐飲or服務業,之後再找也沒問題

By Dorothy
at 2021-09-29T06:45
at 2021-09-29T06:45
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