不太好的贈送經驗 - 新店
By Agatha
at 2015-06-23T04:23
at 2015-06-23T04:23
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各位版友好,我是最近常在板上送東西的新店人.
我很感謝大家,總是很願意解決我不想倒垃圾的困擾.
現在東西快送光了,才來寫這篇抱怨文,
希望以後想跟人索取東西,但沒溝通經驗的人可以看一看,
不要再發生這種事情了,因為送東西的人真的很辛苦.
***以下抱怨開始***
前天我跟一位版友約面交.
我告訴他自己最近不用上班,日期時間給他選.
於是我們就訂了星期一晚上 5:20 分.
結果到了 5:07 ,他傳簡訊跟我說有急事,可能來不了.
(然後就沒有下文了)
5:30 的時候我終於打好簡訊問他:
「那你也早點講吧,讓我這樣子空等是什麼意思?」
然後對方回傳說:
「抱歉也是臨時收到爺爺的病危通知
趕緊跑去醫院
我想說你說你5點下班
所以5點多才傳的
如有不滿
我很抱歉」
我看完很久以後,打了一封站內信給他:
「你不能來的原因, 對這件事沒有任何影響.
因為我從來就無意, 也無法干涉陌生人的生活.
我生氣的地方是, 時間你選的你爽約,
連提前通知我的禮貌都沒有,
最後, 你給我的道歉信也不夠誠懇.
我沒有看到你因為讓我白等而道歉,
你只說因為你有急事, 如果我不滿意 (那也沒辦法了) 這樣.
這種反應真的很糟糕.
我剛剛聯絡版主了,
因為我記得這個版有放鴿子黑名單, 可是不知道怎麼用.
既然你不知道自己有甚麼錯, 我話也多說無益,」
***以下抱怨結束***
真的希望以後跟人家索取東西的人,心要細一點,
如果臨時不能出現 (或改變主意),要提早寄信或傳簡訊通知.
如果是壓到時間才發現不能來,那就要打電話告訴對方.
傳簡訊跟寄信有時候會被忽略,所以一定要鈴鈴鈴到對方接起來,
告訴他說你真的 (不是可能) 不去了,很抱歉.
然後如果對方生氣了,道歉一定要誠懇:
X 我也沒辦法,真的有急事,請你體諒我
X 我也沒辦法,真的有急事,你不滿意我跟你道歉
O 我很抱歉,讓你白等.
我不想因為一次事件公布對方帳號,
希望那位版友看到之後,好好想清楚自己錯在哪裡,
然後不要再犯.
先是爽人家約,然後又是那種道歉簡訊,
真的會讓原本出於善意的人很寒心.
--
我很感謝大家,總是很願意解決我不想倒垃圾的困擾.
現在東西快送光了,才來寫這篇抱怨文,
希望以後想跟人索取東西,但沒溝通經驗的人可以看一看,
不要再發生這種事情了,因為送東西的人真的很辛苦.
***以下抱怨開始***
前天我跟一位版友約面交.
我告訴他自己最近不用上班,日期時間給他選.
於是我們就訂了星期一晚上 5:20 分.
結果到了 5:07 ,他傳簡訊跟我說有急事,可能來不了.
(然後就沒有下文了)
5:30 的時候我終於打好簡訊問他:
「那你也早點講吧,讓我這樣子空等是什麼意思?」
然後對方回傳說:
「抱歉也是臨時收到爺爺的病危通知
趕緊跑去醫院
我想說你說你5點下班
所以5點多才傳的
如有不滿
我很抱歉」
我看完很久以後,打了一封站內信給他:
「你不能來的原因, 對這件事沒有任何影響.
因為我從來就無意, 也無法干涉陌生人的生活.
我生氣的地方是, 時間你選的你爽約,
連提前通知我的禮貌都沒有,
最後, 你給我的道歉信也不夠誠懇.
我沒有看到你因為讓我白等而道歉,
你只說因為你有急事, 如果我不滿意 (那也沒辦法了) 這樣.
這種反應真的很糟糕.
我剛剛聯絡版主了,
因為我記得這個版有放鴿子黑名單, 可是不知道怎麼用.
既然你不知道自己有甚麼錯, 我話也多說無益,」
***以下抱怨結束***
真的希望以後跟人家索取東西的人,心要細一點,
如果臨時不能出現 (或改變主意),要提早寄信或傳簡訊通知.
如果是壓到時間才發現不能來,那就要打電話告訴對方.
傳簡訊跟寄信有時候會被忽略,所以一定要鈴鈴鈴到對方接起來,
告訴他說你真的 (不是可能) 不去了,很抱歉.
然後如果對方生氣了,道歉一定要誠懇:
X 我也沒辦法,真的有急事,請你體諒我
X 我也沒辦法,真的有急事,你不滿意我跟你道歉
O 我很抱歉,讓你白等.
我不想因為一次事件公布對方帳號,
希望那位版友看到之後,好好想清楚自己錯在哪裡,
然後不要再犯.
先是爽人家約,然後又是那種道歉簡訊,
真的會讓原本出於善意的人很寒心.
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